What is your "I am Gay But" (programming.dev)

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We all now the meme of "I am not Gay but" and then you list a celebrity(or character) you find out. What about the opposite team?

Mine is Shego from Kim possible and Karlach from bg3

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[-] SpatchyIsOnline@lemmy.world 11 points 23 hours ago

I gave you the benefit of the doubt, and tried alerting you in good faith that your "joke" didn't come off the way (I assume) you intended.

I didn't accuse you of being biphobic.

I didn't even accuse you of thinking bisexualality isn't real, despite the fact you wrote that in your comment.

I said nothing about you personally.

The correct response would have been along the lines of "sorry, I didn't mean for my comment to come across as hostile, I was just trying to make a silly joke, my bad"

Instead, you've just been a dick

What does that accomplish exactly?

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