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[–] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

How does that work? Especially given the context. As I've understood attraction and what one likes about the other person aren't really changeable? I'm genuinely curious how can that be changed or decided?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    I don't know - maybe just owning your choices?

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

    And still, hows that supposed to change what one likes?
    Of course i can consciously decide to override likes and preferences, but that still doesn't change those. It will still be conscious decision every time.

    And giving the current context of sex. As I've understood, we aren't supposed to force that? Like we don't go up to someone who's gay and say why don't you decide to like women, of course some do, but we're not supposed because those likes aren't supposed to be changeable.

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