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Anon awakens something (thelemmy.club)
submitted 3 months ago by [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 3 points 3 months ago (7 children)

What is findom? Financial domination? Like being a sugar daddy?

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (5 children)

    I keep on ending up like this unironically when the relationship starts off closer to 50/50 slowly 60/40 70/30 then they lose their job then its 100/0 forever even when they gain their job back.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago

    This is not financial advice, but I think if you are stressing your bond allocation too much; you may be missing out on compounding growth. A targeted date fund is perfectly acceptable, so much so that it is a standard in most investment portfolios and even the default, daddy.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah I think you just keep dating freeloaders, unless they're like being dominant about being broke.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago

    Idk what you call it but they get SOO pissed when you ask them to do anything, I asked them to help out more when I was paying for everything that theyre "a slave" bitch all I asked was for you to cook as I was busy after work

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    I hope you put good people in your life someday soon. Its so demoralizing to run into the exact same person with a new face over and over.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    Its hard, the mask slips so much further along and I ignore the signs so hard (this is why they say love is blind) but im working on it with my therapy so I have hope.

    I wish I could just be a "dont take my generosity for weakness" types but Im not 🫠

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