In my case - and this isn't quite an answer to your question, but - I only have a problem with men. Too many men - not all, but enough of them - don't mind their bodily hygiene, which I can find repulsive. This is not ideological but experience and prejudice on my side. I have the opposite prejudice - and experience - regarding women.

Which is to say: I love sex but I hate to fear whether my next romp is going to be in a bed of flowers or in the gutter.

PS: how interesting that I have an aversion to "the gutter" but at the same time have some other... edgy? kinks. 🤣