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[–] 45 points 4 months ago (38 children)

it has an advantage for your mental health, because it helps your mood to know you have finished a task, have a routine, and cleaning.

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  • [–] 93 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    Having to make my bed has a negative effect on my mental health. But yes, that's why I said to evaluate it individually.

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  • [–] 36 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    Doing unnecessary stuff irks me in ways I can’t describe.

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  • [–] 8 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Because we are smart and value time.

    I can't stand actual pointless crap that wastes our lives.

    But if it makes you happy, go for it I say.

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  • [–] 12 points 4 months ago (7 children)

    Contrary to what JP says mental health isn't tied to a clean bedroom, or in this case a made bed.

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  • [–] 14 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    This really depends on the person. For some, there's benefit to the ritual and then again for the "tidy" bed occupying their space. For others, it doesn't matter.

    My personal opinion is if you tend to not be in your bedroom except to sleep then it doesn't matter, but if you spend much time in there then making the bed is beneficial.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago* (4 children)

    nah, fuck him. but a routine definitely is.

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  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    Routine and clean bed aren't the same thing

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    no, but making the bed may be one of those mundane things that bring you into a routine!

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  • [–] 6 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    If those are the advantages then the same advantages could be accomplished by daily filling a cup with water, pouring out the water, drying the glass and putting it back in the cupboard. I'd argue the cup with water is far less effort and yields the same results.

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  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    i don't know how you can make that comparison when one of those things contributes to a sense of normalcy and the other plainly doesn't.

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  • [–] 9 points 4 months ago* (2 children)

    Because normalcy is subjective to each of us. If an unmade bed is normal in my house, then the unmade bed is what contributes to a sense of normalcy for me.

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  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    i was speaking more in relation to other people. also i don't know anyone for whom filling and emptying glasses of water is normal.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago*

    Right. Theres nothing inherent to the act of making a bed, or having a bed made, that makes it normal. It's literally only normal if you're a person that normally does that. If you need a benefit of routine in life, you could choose whatever routine you want!

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  • [–] -1 points 4 months ago (9 children)

    Making your bed just means it will smell faster, you’re trapping moisture in the sheets.

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  • [+] 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)
  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Only if you do it right after getting up

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  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Jeez, how much do you people sweat at night? I'm in a temperate climate and I only sweat at night when something's wrong with me.

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  • [–] 6 points 4 months ago

    You sweat constantly, you just don’t notice it. I β€œdon’t sweat” at night, that doesn’t mean there isn’t moisture in the sheets. Your body is a semi-permeable water sac, of course there’s going to be moisture in the sheets after spending 8 hours in them.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago*

    I sweat a fair amount at night. At this point in my life, I open the window, have a fan blowing air around the room, and sleep with minimal sheets and no clothes. I still end up sweating at some point in the night.

    Mine is likely perimenopause related though.

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