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Anon is a paramedic (thelemmy.club)
submitted 3 months ago by [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 8 points 3 months ago (10 children)

Mine was not horrible, just exasperating. I warned him about every single thing that caused him issues, but he refused to listen, and that killed him.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 months ago (9 children)

    Sometimes I wonder how many suicides are invisible, people start to skip medicines, they dont care about health etc

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    Nah. He didn't have depression or anything like that. He was just the type of person who thought he was always right and the smartest person in the room. If warned about something, he'd do the opposite out of spite, rather than obey someone else.

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  • [+] -9 points 3 months ago* (7 children)

    that isn't suicide. suicide is the active act of killing yourself.

    dying from neglect, or self-neglect isn't suicide.

    though both, are 'deaths of despair'. in the sense they are entirely preventable and due to a lack of emotional/social connections.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    actually that's called "passive suicidal ideation" and is in fact exactly what it sounds like:

    a kind of "if this happens to kill me, oh well, at least it's over." kind of mindset and it is an earlier stage in the process of suicide.

    quick copy paste from the wiki:

    On suicide risk scales, the range of suicidal ideation varies from fleeting thoughts to detailed planning. Passive suicidal ideation is thinking about not wanting to live or imagining being dead. Active suicidal ideation involves preparation to kill oneself or forming a plan to do so.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago* (1 child)

    Or "PDW" when I've got 2 minutes to write down your life story before moving on to the next patient in handoff. It's not uncommon for me to scribble down something to the effect of:

    "PDW w/o plan iso ++life stress" (passive death wish without plan in the setting of multiple life stressors)

    ...multiple times per assignment. Like out of a six-patient assignment for the night I'll probably write that at least twice.

    If it's only one specific stressor or I'm not too pressed for time I may specify. Common specific stressors include:

    • homeless (most common)
    • job loss
    • SO/mom/dad/sis/bro/pet/fam died (usually only one buuut)
    • charges
    • SUD (substance use disorder)
    • chronic ill.

    ...but yeah people be checking into the psych ward for passive death wishes that all the time. 9/10 times the stressor is homelessness and realistically many are exaggerating a little for 3 hots and a cot but I probably would too tbh and I also really don't wanna live in a world where we gotta question the validity of somebody's expressed suicidal ideation.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    My close person died in very young age. Cancer. That person knew that was something going on because of trumor, but tried to postpone doctors visits as long as possible. When was diagnosed, it was in last stage.

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