Nope, as a woman I can confidently say that your comment is doing the exact same thing. Dismissing an entire topic because you have already formed an opinion about it, and that opinion is "they deserved it."

Why would you presume what triggers another person or not? You are virtue-signaling. We get it, you are a new age feminist. Old school feminists realized that they need equality. New age want men to suffer. Don’t worry, we suffer. In quiet. And your questions “feel” exactly like asking “what was she wearing”.

Bullshit

That's completely distorting what I said while ignoring the context of the conversation.

It's not a zero-sum game or a competition. It's not "only men or women can be victims, but not both." Men can be victims. That doesn't contradict the fact that women can be victims too.

The difference is that you're here specifically to invalidate and discredit the things men are saying about their own experiences, in a thread about men not opening up about their experiences, after men commented saying that they get invalidated any time they open up about their experiences.

You're proving their points quite thoroughly. Way to go.