(Different guy, but)

for the rest of us that might feel like the guy i replied to, find a mixed gender hobby that lets you meet on a semi regular basis

Ok so you can't ask a woman out (politely, respectfully, and if it seems like she may be interested) at the gym, but can at a "mixed gender hobby," but then I've also heard reports of not wanting to be asked out while trying to enjoy their hobby elsewhere.

Not that it matters to me, my hobby is walking in the woods taking pictures of cool nature shit, so they'd rather I was a bear and last thing I want to do is freak someone out, I'm more scared of them than they are of me (maybe I am a bear oh fuck.)

stop trying so hard to get laid

I don't try hard and I do get laid, I have a FWB that wouldn't work out as a relationship but who says we can't have fun?

get a relationship

Also not trying for that (at all really, it seems most people are scared of interacting without the assistance of paid spyware that I won't install on my phone, and I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable so as a guy I just don't really talk to women while out and about at all) but it would be nice to one day love and feel loved again, I don't miss the girl that used to anymore, but sometimes I do miss the feeling itself.

and just have fun

I mean, I do, what else is there to do? But people are capable of having fun and also feeling sad sometimes. I know I'm not supposed to admit we have those and yes I'm "lame" or whatever but this is a pseudononymous internet forum so who cares.