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[–] 10 points 4 months ago* (4 children)

With step parents the age difference might also be acceptable.

Excuse me, what? You're not insinuating it would be ok for a step-parent to have sex with their step-child, are you?

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  • [–] 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah, there are uncomfortable power dynamics at play for those roles

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    Wait, why exactly? I can see it being a problem in some cases but I wouldn't assume that it is generally a problem. The way I see it it is just two people who are loved ones of a common other (which is not uncommon in polyamorous relationships as far as I know) and the power dynamics would be dependent on those relationships, of which I would assume there is no inherently more powerful one.

    The acceptable age ranges do imply something icky between the parent and step parent though.

    I should also note that I have not had step parents or children at any point in my life so far and may be unaware of otherwise obvious things.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago

    It’s the power dynamics. A step-parent is in a position of greater power than the child of their partner. It is incredibly unethical to use that position to persuade a younger person to have sex with them.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    I most certainly was not trying to insinuate that. I was wondering if there was a constructed situation where it may be acceptable and I realized that the most obvious issue to me (age gap) is not necessarily an issue and noted that at the end of the paragraph.

    I did not realize how it would be misinterpreted but in hindsight I get it.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    It would be weird and fucked up, possibly abusive.

    But if it's abusive, it's already illegal and no sexual act should be illegal just because I consider it weird.

    Might even be unconstitutional to make sex between (adult) step-parents and their children illegal but I'm not sure.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago* (1 child)

    There’s plenty of abuse that isn’t strictly illegal.

    It’s unethical.

    Look at Woody Allen.

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  • The US does not consider human rights to exist, of course abuse is legal there. Might as well cite Medieval Europe as an example for the legality of torture.

    Besides, I was referring to step-parents and adult non biological children having sexual intercourse. In every case where that is abusive, it is rape which is illegal already.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    Depending on the age range? Its perfectly fine. Hell one of my newish neighbors is one such couple. Dudes dad was dating a women 9 years his junior. They divorced after two years if i recall and his son got together with her and got married.

    They been together now like 20 years. He was 22ishand she was like 41ish if I recall right when they got married. He's now in his 40s and she's in her 60s.

    They are fantastic neighbors. But to be fair was a weird story the first time I heard it from em.

    And to be fair they arnt even the largest age gap couple I know. One of my mother's friends is married to a dude that's like 80 and she's 50 they been together for 15 years.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    It's not about the age range - it's about the step-parent being a parent to a child and then deciding to have a sexual relationship with that person.

    Of course there's circumstances where a step-parent was never actually in a position where they were parenting their partner's children and it wouldn't be as abusive to pursue them after a break up. But that's the exception to the rule.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    But it's unfair to assume the rule is the case when exceptions exist too, right? I understand that is often practical to do so but I still try to avoid it.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    We're talking about step-parents fucking their step-children.

    Let's be a bit realistic here.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    Given that apart from memes about porn I have never heard of it even supposedly happening it seems unnecessary to make a generalized assumption. That's my realistic take, same goes for all the arguably more interesting polyamorous relationship constellations I've thought of that are however otherwise unrelated.

    I also may have forgotten that step siblings are already long gone. Gosh, what has this conversation become.

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