I would be on your side but...

He might tried to pay for sex, we don't know. She certainly posted what she posted. We can't judge him as we know nothing. We can judge her for what she said. 2 people can be bad/good people while we only have data on 1 of them.

The reason why some people aren't happy with her post.

I would never hype up a man

Sounds a bit hostile. Like why go on a date with a man when your attitude is kind of hostile even while retelling the positive experience with that man?

Then she "hypes him up" by pointing at the money that he spent on her. Nothing else.

So she doesn't want to hype a man but when he provide her with wealth.

That is what she said.

He might be a incel... who knows. We don't and we don't need to know to judge her.