Yeah I have no issue with not saying slurs (and saying I can't say slurs is fucking dumb, I choose not to because I understand why I shouldn't — not because trogs on their high horses tell me no), my problem is that you took the phrase 'shit like tone policing' and immediately assumed this must be the singular problem I have with how the left communicates. Thus spurring on an entire comment on why the left doesn't communicate with the right.
I'm not suggesting the left communicate with the right, at all. I'm suggesting the left needs to learn how to communicate amongst itself because things like no no words end up functioning as thought terminating cliches — see your entire comment for reference.