I think I should try to be less provocative with my words. Stomping into a conversation with loaded language is not the best way to get my points across, thank you for your demeanor.

It's probably like a sleeper activation phrase to me at this point and I got annoyed.

I'm sorry, I specifically choose terms like this to set people off. I want them to figure out what actually triggers them about how I'm using the phrase and whether or not it's valid.

I would just like us all to be a little more aware about the whats and whys surrounding things we get emotional about. Otherwise our emotions will inevitably be used against us, directly or indirectly.