Well I had no tools, skills, or money, and a set of really messed up environment with a crabs in a bucket mentality, so it doesn't have to be that way for everyone.

No we're talking about how I learned self-esteem, and did the work on myself to not mistake easy access for appreciation. Because that's not what it is, and the Epstein dumps cleared up remaining questions (eg affirmed what I suspected, once I cleared the brain fog of too much gaslighting, drugs, and alcohol).