And does the SF ever go away?

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[–] 35 points 6 months ago (10 children)

I sincerely dont and cant understand no-fap outside of an addiction 12-steps/abstinence style vantage point.

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  • [–] 22 points 6 months ago* (6 children)

    Like, i dont get how they (presumuably) view having an orgasm-via-penis-in-vagina everyday as truly and biologically distinct from everyday orgasm-via-masturbation. I dont think your body truly knows the difference in a mechanical sense.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    Having never looked into it, beyond what I come across occasionally on sites like this, I always assumed the idea was that being desperate for "relief" somehow made them more attractive to women, hormonally, or made them more "alpha"? Somehow.

    Really stupid shit that kids fall for, I guess.

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  • [–] [S] -1 points 6 months ago

    Yeah it would basically be an anti addiction approach for me. Addiction runs in my family and we get addicted to everything remotely pleasurable. So I've spent my whole life saying no to alcohol & drugs & cigarettes, and since I cant find a suitable companion I have to say no to orgasms too 🤷🏼‍♀️ For me it feels empowering.

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