I did see that, and that doesn't preclude me talking to you, just as I'm sure OP didn't personally invite you to a closed conversation. This is how a social setting works, and if you get all butthurt to the degree that you get snarky and defensive when other people than you intended have opinions about your opinions then you are overly sensitive, and I thought you deserved to have that pointed out for you. Thanks for the well-wishing, sir.