I have taken my kids to some pretty small concerts, that they asked for rides to, that garage band scene is still around it's just not our scene anymore, right? The main difference I found is that my kids wanted to share the music with me, wanted me to go see it with them and my God I would never have done that with my mom.

So thankful they grew up and do wear stupid clothes (and sometimes awesome costumes for conventions). In our family there's a gender split - the boys & men including the trans one are less about going out, the girls & women are all more into going out to shows & events.