I'm just a layman, I'm afraid. I've been expanding my understanding of literature and I frequently come across various references to philosophy, so I've taken some detours over the years and read baudrillard, nietzsche, plato, some marx, zichec or however you spell his name, fanon, etc. Almost every one of them refer to Hegel, so I thought I'd check him out.
As for my current understanding of dialectics. Iirc, everything is connected in an infininite Web of ever changing contradictions that negate or solve each other, giving rise to new contradictions to be solved and so on.
Probably wrong, but I'd like to get a better understanding.