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That wonderful feeling of seeing that you're not alone (thelemmy.club)
submitted 8 months ago by [M] to c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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[–] 2 points 8 months ago (1 child)

Oh sure, the acceptance is there as I said.

However rejecting all societal defaults, having no clear path forward and little to use for guidance or example is certainly a rather specific mood. As much liberating it can also be.

Regarding the OP, I actually rather enjoy when me being visibly gender non-conforming has this effect on people.

And you're right, we could definitely use more variety of takes on here. Maybe I'll be the enbyposter I want to see in the world.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (2 children)

    I feel like these are all things that I also go through as a (probably mostly???) binary trans person. I don't really know who I want to be yet and have to discover this, too. I think it is always as much about finding yourself as it is about finding the right gender and gender expression.

    On days when I feel confident in myself, I also enjoy this very specific mood of nonconforming and messing with people's perception of gender :)

    Would be great if you wanted to post here!!

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    I meant being GNC having the effect of attracting trans/queer people in non-queer spaces. I don't usually care enough about people's perception to intentionally mess with it, however I guess it also helps me spot the people I want to avoid early on.

    Also I'd love to pick your (or anyone's with relevant experience) brain about the possible differences. However I'm pretty sure that's not discussion for public forum. The chance of me asking a demeaning question or phrasing something really badly would be fairly high.

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