I have friends who are trans but I don’t know that I have heard this phrase visibly trans. Also, maybe my town or friend group is more open but if someone is trans it’s awkward to me personally, not including anyone else’s awkwardness or our own baseline awkwardness…. but generally just start using the new pronouns but I mess up especially for my friends who I’ve known a long time… I don’t interact with my trans friends every day though because I’m not on social media or what not to be honest.
Does it just mean that you’re having trouble finding your style or something. Is your style some kind of thing that is just blatantly offensive to weirdos somehow, lol? There are a lot of weirdos in the world and you may be one of them, but I hope you’re doing your best as you are able to have or even search for to find your best life. Always interested in learning about all of our stuff but it also ain’t your job to inform everyone or speak for an entire group of humans lol.