There's a pragmatic question of pedagogy here. It's funny to think about the Soviet femme fatale ruining their lives until they learn to genuinely be grateful to her for it, but what I have unfortunately found works to my advantage is that these fuckers don't put up the same brain worm defense mechanisms when I talk to them as somebody who they've been trained to disregard or violently reject on sight. When they're not frothing at the mouth with rage, I can actually start to make some sense to them, and they'll nod along in agreement as I start talking about socialist talking points. That's what they've been trained to do when people like me speak and socialist talking points actually fucking make sense, go figure.
It's stupid and gross, but these fascists literally just won't listen to POC or queer folks or women. The part of their brains filled with a playlist of hateful shit not different at all from the things that you read in 19th century European race science and philosophy begins running all the greatest hits as soon as the wrong kind of person starts speaking. As a first step deworming procedure, it might just be more effective for folks like me to stand up there and give them what they've been trained to accept as a source of authority. It also saves those most harmed from this hatred from being exposed to more of it. Unless someone wanted to volunteer for the job, I don't think those harmed the most by these systems have the same obligation to be a part of the process.
I regrettably have some personal insight into this dynamic. I was at one point a downwardly economically mobile young white guy who wanted to get laid, so I was susceptible to late 2000s seduction bullshit and later the red pill. To this day it's my biggest regret taking part in those communities, but I'm very aware of how they think. Deprogramming CAN happen, but it's rare the person who can do it themselves. The only reason I got out is because I thought a lot of the big bloggers and early youtubers were kind of bad at making the arguments against feminists, so I should go read feminist literature and do a better job Lmao. I debate bro'd myself out of it, because it turns out if you ACTUALLY READ LEFTIST THEORY instead of straw manning it, you'll just find that it's correct. The dam broke and suddenly I realized they weren't just idiots, they were maliciously straw manning the left because if they didn't their whole project would fall apart and they'd lose their social capital and grift. Long story short, I know how those freaks view people and what kinds of defense mechanisms their parasitic ideology employs. I can sneak past the first layer just by showing up, so why not exploit that advantage? Ya know? Let me go do the back breaking work of tilling the soil so others can come along and plant the seeds.