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Why are the you are the problem comments so common on Lemmy? (blackneon.net)
submitted 9 months ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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I read some people who vent on their posts or talk about problems they face in life and the replies they get is, no you are the problem, fuck you.

On Reddit, the only thing that is close to this is when women complain about their boyfriends, they got told to leave them, whatever is her complaint about.

Any explanation?

Disclaimer: I am not talking about my own experiences here, but rather what I read in other posts, my observations could be wrong.

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[–] 17 points 9 months ago (1 child)

If your referencing r/relationshipadvice you can just ignore anything you read on there because it certainly isn't advice.

It's toxic as fuck and the people commenting are probably incel chain-wanking 4chan fanatics who've never had a relationship

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago

    Well I guess it is advice. It's just really really bad advice.

    But I feel like the real value comes from having to write your problem down and actually thinking about a lot of different facets to make a stranger understand what you are going through.

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