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Had a date with a heterosexual man for the first time. He had a hard-on when we cuddled. It felt strangely validating. (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 10 months ago by to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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That's the post. I had only dated bisexual men before and it was kinda nice to know that a person that really only finds women attractive finds me attractive. Chime in if you want to share similar moments.

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[–] 40 points 10 months ago (1 child)

then she was emotionally stimulating as a woman which is still affirming.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah?.. That's what I was saying lol

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  • [–] [M] 36 points 10 months ago* (2 children)

    It's something that you would not have thought, let alone said, if a cis woman had talked about enjoying her date having an erection when they hugged. Your comment served no point except to diminish the positivity that a trans person was feeling after a positive dating experience. If you read the sidebar, this particular community is "a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people"

    Nothing you said was supportive, and this community is not the place for it.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

    It's something that you would not have thought, let alone said, if a cis woman had talked about enjoying her date having an erection when they hugged.

    Oh no I absolutely would have thought the same way

    Your comment served no point except to diminish the positivity that a trans person was feeling after a positive dating experience.

    It actually wasn't my point but fair. Speak think before I think speak I guess.

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