No you're not putting this on everyone else this is on the companies.

If they didn't require 5 + years of experience in every job role then there wouldn't be a large amount of unqualified applicants. Pick any technology at all, including ones that came out 45 minutes ago, and it'll require 5 plus years of experience. I saw a job that wanted 2 years worth of experience in a technology that is still in beta and hasn't even officially been publicly released yet.