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[–] 16 points 11 months ago (4 children)

[cw: crackers trying to get away with using slurs] i wonder if this happened in other people's high schools back in like 2009. there was one of those white kids who thought he was eminem and he was talking to his other eminem-american friend, and he was explaining how he figured out a way to "sound like they're saying the n word without actually saying it". "say 'nyuh', that way it sound kinda like it, but you aint actually saying it". later in class he dropped it a little bit louder then started looking around to see if any if the black kids heard it and were about to beat his ass. but yeah i'm just curious if those type of white dudes at anyone else's high school tried that. it's one of those things that seems like it would be really specific but turns out to be pretty universal

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    We had entire packs of Eminem-Americans (lmao new mayo classification just dropped) at my high school circa the early-mid 2000s. They were annoying as fuck. I think I mentioned them a few threads back months ago. As far as I know, none of them would say the n-word. They would use the gay f-word and various slurs for Latine people, though (but that was typical of all the white kids at my school).

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 child)

    Oh yeah i definitely relate. Some kid sang it with the hard r as a joke.

    Anyways, how could I tell this one other white guy why starting to say the N word as an adult isn't okay?

    I found this video essay involving modern blackfacing and minstrel shows called The Evolution of the Culture Vulture interesting. Some white guy i know started saying the n word ending with an "a" as a joke when almost 30 years old. I only see him once every several years and idk if I should send him this video. We dont talk in between those years. He's mostly associated with my boyfriend, and they can go over a year without talking. If I end up doing that I would say "Even though I think its not okay you're specifically doing an exact thing in this video, I still appreciate your intent and your great quality of trying to create good vibes however you can. This does not mean at all that I'd disown you as a friend. Its just to say take a step back and examine what youre doing when you..." Idk i can't think of how to discuss this with him so here I am.

    He's a busy guy, he may never watch the video. I have social anxiety too so I may never send anything. I just want to know how to carry out a convo about this and still want advice anyways. That shit really bothered me and I couldn't place why until seeing the video.

    Sone context: I'm not black and don't live in the black experience.

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