One of my abusers has aggressive parents who are very strict and wake them up at 4 a.m. every day, and neither of them have very many friends nor boyfriends which they desperately want and are lonely. Should I feel bad despite how they treated me?

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[–] 8 points 1 year ago*

Hate will destroy your soul. It will creep in, feeling good, like drugs. Hate makes you feel righteous, vindicated—it's a powerful poison. You will become addicted and it will slowly work it's way into your mindset until you hate everything and everyone.

Practice empathy.

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