While I'm not naive enough to think there will be any meaningful reduction in personal car usage in my remaining lifetime (~20-30 years), I'd like us to START making infrastructure investments that will at least point us in the right direction. But no, it's endless stroads and sprawl and retail development and single family housing as far as the eye can see.

Many people spend their whole lives in cities like New York never owning a car.

Its not absurd to expect Americans to never own cars it's absurd to expect it to happen before you built cities that enable car free lifestyles. People like to frame it as chicken and egg but it's not, density and lifestyle always follow transportation infrastructure.