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[-] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Yeah let's get dragged into semantics.

Does violence only happen in physical form? Because the time I was pickpocketed left me paranoid for years. The violence inflicted upon me didn't leave me physically hurting, you're definitely correct there.

It left me emotionally fucked for years.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Precise definitions are important in law. Someone threatening or using physical violence is a more severe crime. Conflating the two is detrimental to everyone.

[-] [email protected] -2 points 4 days ago

Bless you trying to be sensible, but most in the US seem to have internalized violence as a virtue. Their feelings being hurt seems to mean someone has to get physically hurt to pay.

So the guy being paranoid because they were pick pocketed above somehow feels like he would avoid the impact if he gets to physically hurt the thief. He can't see how normal people don't really enjoy physically hurting others, and want to avoid it. They're not normal in his eyes, they're 'pussies' smdh.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 15 hours ago

Is it sensible though? The emotional impact of the pick pocket influenced that person's behavior for years afterwards. Likely resulting in negative interactions with those around them propagating the damage.

Though you'd have to ask is the problem with the pick pocket or the fact our societies lack basic functional safety nets that people have these reactions to losing phones?

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