Well... sometimes people just don't understand each other, too. It was nice talking to you. I didn't ask any questions because you made yourself quite clear in other comments. You seem to be the type that makes timid people feel unseen, and I don't vibe with that.
By trying to make sense of everything, I don't mean the small fishbowl you seem to be seeing here. I mean humanity. Maybe I'm just insane.
Well, good luck to you. Pick out and reply to everything you don't like in life (as you did here) and trample past everything else. That just sounds like stress to me, and I have enough of that without seeing daggers where there are none.