▲ 1206 ▼ rule away Rowling (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone) submitted 1 year ago by dandelion@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone 278 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) Way to be a cunt, cunt. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Being real for a sec, are you doing okay with everything? This can't have been very fun for you to engage with so it's starting to seem like you just want someone to talk to. I try to keep in mind that there are real humans beyond the words we're typing and these peoples have lives and stress and a bunch of shit we could never see. Social media, especially karma systems, are a quick way to feel like we're being social, but the upvote/downvote system psychologically puts us in constant competition, as though conversations can have a clear winner and loser. I'm not going to call you names back, I've played that game, it doesn't feel very good. Any hobbies you're currently excited about? I have a couple things I'm doing I could talk about too? And if you really are just having fun saying "Cunt." over and over that's fine too, I'm just confused what you're getting out of it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Maybe write another essay about how I’m the one not handling this very well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Lol if we have any sense of self awareness it should be abundantly clear how embarrassing it is for both of us that we're still doing this. If you can't admit that then yeah I'd say you're not handling it very well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Being real for a sec, are you doing okay with everything? This can't have been very fun for you to engage with so it's starting to seem like you just want someone to talk to. I try to keep in mind that there are real humans beyond the words we're typing and these peoples have lives and stress and a bunch of shit we could never see. Social media, especially karma systems, are a quick way to feel like we're being social, but the upvote/downvote system psychologically puts us in constant competition, as though conversations can have a clear winner and loser. I'm not going to call you names back, I've played that game, it doesn't feel very good. Any hobbies you're currently excited about? I have a couple things I'm doing I could talk about too? And if you really are just having fun saying "Cunt." over and over that's fine too, I'm just confused what you're getting out of it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Maybe write another essay about how I’m the one not handling this very well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Lol if we have any sense of self awareness it should be abundantly clear how embarrassing it is for both of us that we're still doing this. If you can't admit that then yeah I'd say you're not handling it very well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Maybe write another essay about how I’m the one not handling this very well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Lol if we have any sense of self awareness it should be abundantly clear how embarrassing it is for both of us that we're still doing this. If you can't admit that then yeah I'd say you're not handling it very well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) Lol if we have any sense of self awareness it should be abundantly clear how embarrassing it is for both of us that we're still doing this. If you can't admit that then yeah I'd say you're not handling it very well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago permalink fedilink source parent
[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.ml 1 point 1 year ago permalink fedilink source parent