I know I'm not in trouble, but I do feel bad that I'm probably the reason blahaj.zone will defederate with hexbear. I just thought they had an insane take on what hexbear was and posted it in the_dunk_tank. I included a link because I am not a 
but also I am a and so are all of you and I'm sorry for that as well.
Tbf this is what the admin commented before we started jumping into the thread:
Then they went on a rant about "putting our differences aside because we're too large queer communities, but you guys blew it by brigading" but then again there's a good chance they would've found a different reason soon enough anyways.