Lemmy is almost entirely incredibly shut-in discord kids, people who were too uptight to work out on reddit or other social media, neurodivergents who believe making effort to socialize is akin to self-immolation, and other edge-cases from the broader internet.

It's a fantastic place to actually have a conversation without being drowned out by 300 people trying to push their own brands, agendas and manifestos, but it's also not a place to see normal people being normal much of the time.

edit: your downvotes are telling. Might want to think about why a message like this effects you negatively. (No I don't care to debate it, no don't ask AI about it. THINK about it.)