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[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

There was time in my life when most of my food came from a public pantry. I know it's not the same as stamps, bit same principle.

Anyway, birthday rolls around; didn't think anything of it cuz I was in the "it's just another day..." phase of life, and even if I wanted to do something for it, I wouldn't have been able to afford it. Roll up to the pantry for that week's pickup, and they break out a fucking cake and a hand-written birthday card! Nothing crazy - maybe 6-inch diameter, enough for the wife and I to split. But that shit pulled my ass right out of a depression spell like nothing else came close to before or since.

When I finally got a reliable income coming in and paid off the critical stuff and got a little bit of savings, my first 'splurge' was a $1k donation to that pantry with a note saying that their assistance pretty much single-handedly saved me from homelessness and probably from suicide; and enabled me to take the steps I needed to get the job I have now and ultimately become self sufficient.

Food is more than just nutrients; and junk food is more than just food that's junk.

And pantries are bad ass. If anyone reading this is struggling and not yet using one, GO SEE IF YOU'RE ELIGIBLE! Many people are resistant to ask for help prior to hitting absolute rock bottom, but a little help now (even if you only-kind-of need it) could save you from needing a LOT of help later. They're also an awesome source of info on local resources - whatever your unique situation is, they can probably point you in the right direction to start getting shit under control.

...I should make another donation - shit's extra fucked nowadays.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I bet it would feel very different if you just used food stamps to buy your own cake

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 minutes ago

Probably, but then that would have enabled me to give my wife that or vice versa. We don't have kids, but a lot of food stamp recipients do - same spiel.

And even outside of special events, maybe that can of soda with dinner is the carrot-on-a-stick that gets a person through an otherwise miserable day cuz, shocker: poverty fucking sucks.

That's the cool thing about not having arbitrary restrictions on shit like this: people are free to handle their own unique situation at their own discretion, including whether or not junk food is worth including in that week's budget.