Sure. You know better than everyone. Congrats. Doesn't have to be a "her" btw...

Funny that I got called a pedophile as well when I was a minor. Fun times. Being with someone way older isn't always bound to end badly, provided the adult isn't a bad person (which isn't easy in the world we live in) and that both understand the risks and adopt the right posture.

I also know other people who have been in a similar situation. Sometimes it went okay, sometimes not.