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[–] 1 point 2 years ago (14 children)

Reacting defensively to earnest criticism speaks volumes, I'm afraid.

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    Usually when it's pointed out to me that I'm reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

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    “Sucking someone’s dick” is often used as a way to refer to someone sucking up to someone else in a way that isn’t explicable unless there were a secret relationship

    why would you immediately assume you understand its usage in every case?

    so why is sucking dick a thing requiring a secret relationship?

    also it seems like a specifically gendered expression, why wouldn't you say "eating Russian pussy" if you wanted to imply that there's some relationship

    It just scans as homophobic, just as calling trump/elon women as an insult reads as misogynistic.

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    I still don't see how your words aren't bigotry just because you're convinced you have a suitable target.

    You never really answered my question directly, why does sucking dick imply a secret/subservient relationship?

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    You said “subservient”, not me, so maybe also take that one to your therapist too. (this is clearly a word choice you would judge someone else for)

    quoting you:

    “Sucking someone’s dick” is often used as a way to refer to someone sucking up to someone else in a way that isn’t explicable unless there were a secret relationship

    you were the one who said that the expression "sucking dick" means "sucking up to someone else"- do people often "suck up to" their subordinates or their superiors?

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