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[โ€“] [email protected] 34 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My mother-in-law gave me a booked called The Etiquette Edge which essentially explained how to be polite

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

This is so funny to me! My wife recently got mad at me for comments I made on our anniversary. When I explained what I meant, she was totally fine. Communication is hard sometimes.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

"No honey, I was referring to that female dog... and was saying that you can't not you're a c-"

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 5 minutes ago

Don't know why we keep having this same conversation...

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah I'd agree with that, but this is different. She was trying to help with what she saw as my ignorance about how much more positively people respond when you follow certain social rules.

She's a northern German woman who used to run a car dealership. I listen to punk rock. We get along but the things we value in life are pretty disparate.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 33 seconds ago

Ah, yeah that is different and not as funny. Keep rocking!