Hm, maybe. Where I lived, your chances were low if you’re a nerd and/or looking for something serious. Like, most people on tinder were the exact same crowd you‘d also meet in clubs. But it also wasn’t a particularly big town and most people on tinder in my age range were university students from the less nerdy faculties…

Well what should non-autistic people do then?

For you yes, that's not the norm. In average cities/towns, it's used for hook ups (shallow ones) and cheating. Can you meet a person there? Sure but odds are very much against it.

Note, I'm talking about Tinder specifically, dating apps are fine.