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[–] -1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I actually like and help some of my friends, who do respect me, but others, who act like my friends but actually just bully and gaslight me, I just use for my own benefit (usually by pretending to be fine with it). Those assholes could help you, without you having to have any obligations to them.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

    Using people for your benefit also makes you a bad friend, and a questionable person.

    It's also a step down the road to advocating for slavery.

    Doing something really immoral to a person who mistreats you while pretending to be their friends is not the right way to deal with such situations.

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