My second point directly addressed that. Capitalist state apparatus operates by a conflicting logic, but it's still a logic rooted in material benefit.
Sure, if it's someplace like Grenada that could be seen as a lilypad to attack the United States, it would be crushed to avoid perceived harm in the cost-benefit analysis. If it's someplace like Chile or the Congo with a whole lot of mineral wealth, the payoff will be higher. But there's still a calculation that gets made. Capitalists are not irrationally driven to crush socialist projects; they do it because they stand to financially benefit in the long run even after the losses in money and equipment and lives.
Another point is in the belly of the beast. Nobody has outlawed homesteading, despite the fact that this actively reduces GDP by displacing the formal economy with the informal economy, limiting tax revenue and also rarely contributing to anything that can be used as part of a war effort.
If you call yourself a Marxist-Leninist party with the stated goal of overthrowing the government, you're a target from the beginning, and the past 100 years have seen Western governments running absolute circles around insurgent communist parties. But if you're supposedly just a bunch of people doing collective homesteading, with a mutual aid network that's definitely no-sir not at all part of a dual power institution, you have the capacity to grow and spread.
I thought we had fully abandoned the whole premise of "they hate us 'cause we're free" and understood the logic that was obscured by that thought-terminating cliche.
What kind of ratfucking is a bad actor going to do? Assassinate the Leader that doesn't exist? Bribe or blackmail someone, okay. But do you bribe the chief parliamentarian, the chief strategist, the chief taskmaster, the chief mediator, the chief teacher, or the chief spokesperson on the council of good governance? None of those options sound very productive, and all those roles are easily switched out with someone from a lower council. Or maybe they want to invade and occupy- how are they going to do that when there would be a rifle (or a bow) behind every blade of grass?
In practice, anarchistic projects in the 21st century have faced more difficulty with gangs than they have with state actors.