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[–] [email protected] 70 points 5 months ago (2 children)

So do people just not understand that temperature tolerance is a limited thing based on your climate and any deviations can feel significant?

[–] [email protected] 63 points 5 months ago (6 children)

No, they do not, and most of them aren't willing to understand, either.

People, or at least NT people, with higher temperature tolerance are almost always assholes about it - I have weird heat sensitivity, I suspect on account of my Autism, and I only stopped getting constant shit for it once I basically entirely stopped talking to NTs.

The people in this thread are just seizing on an excuse to shit on people they perceive as weaker, or an excuse to shit on the English as if they are actually inherently evil just by existing. Or both.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

It's an byproduct of this site's podcast fandom origin. Some people don't understand that Chapo's "bullying is cool" bit is comedic irony aimed at wealthy journalists and politicians on twitter who never actually experience bullying and just have no context for seeing negative feedback to their broadly unpopular opinions.

It's also just common regional chauvinism. The same people here who say stuff like "just open a window dipshit, it's worse where I live and I think it's comfortable!" will go on to lament the seriousness of climate change elsewhere, then go right on to another post about low temperatures in winter and comment something like "just put on a sweater dipshit, it's worse where I live and I think it's comfortable!"

[–] [email protected] 25 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. The worst is how they always double down when confronted. It's the same shit libs do when confronted on their bigotries.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Maybe you just look really pathetic to people who have lived in third world countries where this a cool evening temperature

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'm from a climate that's typically 30-35c 70-100% humidity that has single digit days under 20.

26c is a cool evening to me because I'm fairly used to it. Not everyone is me though, and being over the age of 10, I have a thing called "theory of mind." Which is the ability to conceptualise that other people are also people. You should work on that, it's fairly vital.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

I am imagining myself as a pathetic angloid, I feel slimy and red and bloated with cheese. Ok back to my normal body

[–] [email protected] 31 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Ableism is, unfortunately, extremely common on hexbear.

I think that the shitting on the British is just overcompensation for having been really into Doctor Who and Sherlock in their Tumblr phase. I'm Australian, so I do love to insult the British, but people just overdo it.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'm Chinese living in Australia, so I have 2 reasons to insult the British.

If I ever get power I'm flooding the UK with opium.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Uncritical support in your noble and brave quest.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

soypoint-1 YOU HATE BECAUSE LE POP CULTURE PRODUCT!!!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

A normal person can't watch Sherlock without developing a hatred for england. It just tends to fade with time in most people

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 months ago (2 children)

It is interesting to see high heat and associated sweating as quite a powerful stimulus which often causes overstimulation particularly in people with neuro divergence. So sometimes it's not even a heat tolerance problem but an overstimulation problem which NTs seem to have a hard time understanding.

Also like others have said, perception of temperature changed is largely dependent on where your current baseline is.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 months ago

I have fibromyalgia and autism so it's a combo for me. Heat makes pain worse, discomfort increases sensitivity, etc etc bad times.

Even just new meds can fuck with your ability to process heat. When I started prozac I would feel hot and get sweaty from basically any activity, which then meant I'd get cold, shiver, sweat more. NTs are fucking weird

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

In my case it almost feels like my body's reaction to heat has a screwed-up sense of how hot things are. I can't take hot showers, for example, which are objectively not dangerous, because they genuinely feel like they are going to burn me - normal-hot-shower temperature water feels like like a wet hot pan, it's like my cap is just lower. Ambient heat in the air and light doesn't do that in the same way, but it can make walls and stuff feel like that, naturally.

I hadn't thought of it from the overstimulation angle before, though, but now that I think about it I think you're right, that is at least part of why I hate ambient heat and particularly sweating. Thank you for that insight.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

That sounds super frustrating, do you have any idea why that might be? I know certain conditions like Raynauds or some medication can fuck with temperature perception.

Oh no worries, my partner described it to me that way as she gets pretty much the same symptoms in the heat that she gets in large crowds or noisy environments. Then we looked it up and other people (especially those with ASD) described it the same way!

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

We used to be able to shit on the English, now we can't because of woke ☹️

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

There are valid reasons to shit on the English (eg. their queerphobia)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Also their milky complexions, cheese bloat & frail constitutions that collapse during a warm breeze

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

shit on the English as if they are actually inherently evil just by existing

I-was-saying

Death to America

[–] [email protected] 28 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Not to mention that just from person to person within the same climate there are significant differences, probably genetic at their core. Two people can be sitting in the exact same spot and one will be burning up and the other freezing cold and neither of them are "wrong"

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Part of it can also be if a person has had heat injuries before too. After you have one, you become more sensitive and vulnerable to heat. I know, the I've had a couple... :-(

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Explains why the Ac and heater keep turning on/off at work every 5 minutes.