I slammed my head into the concrete really hard. Hard enough to destroy the helmet. Hard enough I could have died even wearing a helmet.
It was a totally unexpected freak accident, did something I'd done a thousand times before, only this time I fell over. You just can't predict some accidents.
I've probably crashed a bicycle or motorbike 50 times in my life. The only people who haven't crashed are people who don't ride often.
I get what you're saying, people take more risks when they are wearing a helmet. But at the same time, not all crashes are the rider's fault. Sometimes it's another vehicle. Sometimes it's an unexpectedly slippery surface. Sometimes it's a mechanical failure (have you ever had a tyre rapidly defalte suddenly at speed and then come off the wheel rim before you could stop? I have. Twice. It's not fun). Sometimes you just get hit in the face by a rock or a large bird.
Cycling is inherently dangerous. Protection is appropriate.
... also ... if the statistics say wearing a helmet may protect you... then fuck, I'll take those odds. Imperfect protection is better than no protection at all. If you cycle regularly, you will crash. There's no uncertainty in that - everyone who has cycled regularly for any period of time has crashed more than once. And head injuries are the most common cycling injury according to Australian hospital statistics (among serious injuries anyway - hospitals obviously don't collect data on minor bruises).