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Anon has an asexual gf (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 2 years ago by [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

BDSM != sex, even if the two are heavily connected in a lot of people's minds. I've played with both tops and bottoms that were ace/het/LGBT, and there was not anything sexual there. Hell, one of my fave experiences was bottoming for a lesbian top who enjoyed beating on dudes.

BDSM is not inherently sexual, even if there can be a lot of sexuality involved.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    am lesbian who enjoys beating on dudes (impact play w/ anyone tbh)

    shoutout to kinky guys who bottom for domme lezzies but still respect their sexuality :]

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    10000%

    I love getting beat by confident women (presenting people), and never expect anything more than that. Being somewhat demi helps a lot with that aspect, but it's just basic respect for an ephemeral play partner in my mind.

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