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[–] 163 points 2 years ago (23 children)

Text messages and phone calls. I don’t need to see my boomer relatives racist posts.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 years ago (19 children)

    That was disappointing, when you grow up thinking your parents are progressive and then as old age and its symptoms happen their guards drop and you find out that they always had some racist tendencies. I guess credit to them suppressing them for so long.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    In my parents' old age they've gotten more progressive. I reject the notion that people naturally trend towards conservativism as they age... I just think there are a fuckton of entitled "I got mine" boomers.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    I recently read an article that claims people become more progressive as they age, but society becomes more progressive faster, so it just seems like they become conservative.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    I am originally from the south but my mother joined the Air Force and we moved away after she divorced my dad when I was very young. I’m so glad that I was able to experience life outside of that racist bubble. I’m not sure how I would have turned out had I grown up there.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    Same with me. It’s weird, during the end of the Mayan calendar my grandparents asked my dad to leave his wife and two kids to go into their bunker to prepare to fight off the minorities that all follow the Antichrist during the end times. The reason we were not invited to their crusade was my mom voted Democrat, and Jesus would not give souls to children who would live to see the end times as that would be to cruel for their god. He told them hell no. And it was weeks before they resurfaced again and pretended nothing ever happened. Could i have been conditioned thus if my dad don’t join the NAVY? Scary thought.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

    I'm the opposite. I don't need to see my Gen Z relatives desperate pleas for attention.

    My boomer relatives are relatively liberal and don't feel the need to share more than the vacation they're on, the cocktail they're drinking, or their high score on candy crush.

    Edit: I assume the downvotes are from butthurt Gen Zers. I don't mean to generalize, I can't imagine anyone doing that when discussing an entire generation, I'm simply offering my own personal experience. When my cousin is posting photos of himself in a banana hammock and my sister is posting daily cringe videos of her words of "advice", AND IG keeps trying to show me this because the algorithm is trash, this keeps me off social media. Right, I should just not "follow" my relatives. Or, I could just stay away entirely. It's fine.

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    I don't. They have my phone number. They can text or call.

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  • [–] 47 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Send me a text or call me. The family and friends I want to talk to will make an effort. The rest I don't really need to know about.

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    [–] 39 points 2 years ago

    I know where they live and have their phone number

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  • I don't use social media to stay in contact with family; I use various messaging/call technologies.

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  • [–] 38 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

    SMS and telephone and IRL.

    I haven't used Facebook for over ten years. I was using Instagram for a while but the algorithm makes using it utterly pointless.

    Do you really need to be on top of everyone all the time? Give your relationships room to breathe. Allow yourself to have engaging conversations with people to catch up and get to know them and the things that matter most to them. Allow yourself the liberty of not knowing the most ridiculous crap that they choose to share with the world.

    Edit: Oh! I have a friend who I turned on to GroupMe a long time ago. He and his family still use it regularly. So, if you're looking for something, give that a look.

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  • [–] 33 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    A private Signal group for nobody besides us.

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    [–] 23 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

    I don’t use any social media. I give my phone number to family members. They can call/text if they want to reach me.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago

    Texting?? I also use this technological innovation called living with your parents.

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  • [–] 21 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Stay in contact with family? No thanks

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    You feel like you can't disconnect from these things, but you can. Group text plus family learn quickly that you're outside of social media. They learn to deliberately send photos or call and if your spouse is more social, they become the conduit for "news" and it's filtered down to you when important

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  • [–] 18 points 2 years ago

    Simple. My sister keeps in touch with the family via Facebook and I keep in touch with her by phone. 😁

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    I use this alien technology called a phone.

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  • [–] 17 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    What? You don't use phone as a phone anymore?

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    [–] 15 points 2 years ago

    I call them

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  • [–] 14 points 2 years ago

    Signal for whole family chat; phone and SMS variously; discord for some

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  • [–] 14 points 2 years ago

    None, I like it that way. I also don"t pick up the phone when they call.

    I have a few friends though, we Signal.

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    Signal groups, works great

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    [–] 10 points 2 years ago

    I just text and email, also actual mail.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    Telegram group chats. It's perfect.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    They can suck my balls on WhatsApp

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    Giant group texts. One has over 30 people, mostly used for baby/marriage announcements. Then a bunch of other group texts for different social groups (stoners, siblings, camping, etc).

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    Why would I stay in touch with family? Those people suck.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago

    a phone number

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago

    If my family isn't on Steam Chat, then we don't speak.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    Bold of you to assume that I have family that I want to keep in touch with. Entire family tree is twisted and gnarled, and full of white-trash sociopaths and narcissists.

    For the one remaining person I might keep in touch with, it’s a text message at holidays.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    I don't use social media to stay connected with family. I lift up the phone, go visit, or if we need to communicate online, I have an XMPP server for the family with end to end encryption. Can share pictures, text, and can even do video calls if need be, send files, and so on.

    Don't see the need to involve any kind of social media.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    i pick up my phone and call em....

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    My mother and my kiddo live with me. I don't really have any other family.

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