Over the last few months, - reading. I never thought about reading as being an engaging arousal method. Maybe I'm too much of a connoisseur or something, but it is much harder for me to get aroused from reading. Albeit from literotica or AI, it must be much more engaging to take to climax, while also engaging me mentally on new levels I never experienced with visual media alone. It goes places that make me question much of my ethics and preconceptions in unique ways. This even helps me overcome some of the residual biases I was unable to address due to my ultra conservative religious extremist upbringing (that I reject completely).
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Okay but what was the new toy? My friend wants to know. My friend is my prostate.
To answer: find a great porn, play with a few toys, possibly edge for a while until an explosive orgasm.
Staying as close to the edge as possible for as long as possible—which usually ends up being somewhere between half an hour and an hour in my case, if I'm honestly keeping myself right on the edge the whole time—and then, as soon as I can't possibly hold it anymore, do the exact opposite of ruining it. That is, whenever I'm about to cum whether I want to or not, I deliberately stop edging, speed up, and just make myself cum as hard as I can. I love dedicating an entire hour to making myself cum so hard I can no longer form complete sentences, one time, and then just laying there and being totally satisfied by that. It's 1,000% worth the effort.
That sounds really freaking difficult. I've always had such a hard time controlling myself when I'm on the edge! I've got better at it but my self control is not what I want it to be xD
It does sound like such a good time! Maybe I'll just give it a shot!
Anal dilators are nice. My anus gets a little more forgiving each time. This somewhat sates my libido and serves the additional purpose of preparing me for a pounding I hope to receive some day soon.
Recommendation for sex toy: e-stim plug
I never tried something like this before, but oh wow is this fun :) (and you can set whatever strength will keep you at your preferred arousal-level)
My perfect sexual session would be something that would last for about 30 minutes. Using various positions and all along my partner is also having a good time.
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