Thanks. My problem with a lot of the images on here that I'd otherwise like is the hot woman/fat ugly dude duo that shows up so much - in real life when we were swinging I honestly didn't mind doing guys I outclassed in looks, it's kind of fun but certainly NOT what I would like to see with my eyes!
On watching what you are insecure about, I do like better the small boob ladies but not sure being small is an insecurity anymore (it sure was but as an older woman I love, love being a small boob person), I just dislike big fake bolt ons and not into the plush built ladies either, is it possible your friends just had a type?
But - and it's a big but - even the visual media that I find very arousing is less arousing than a good story. Like if I read the same thing it would be better.
I like this discussion, does LemmyNSFW support polls?