This is kind of a jumbled mess of an argument, which is what I expect from a futurist. Two of the four items are traits of autism, the last is a personal problem, and only the first references the physical world (brittleness).

I think the answer to especially the last one, the confusion you're feeling, is understanding late-stage capitalism, but it's just another enactment of the Grand Theory of Social Enshittification, where power acceleratingly accumulates to fewer and fewer people until eventually the needs of society are sacrificed to the benefit that few. Ultimately, society collapses, either through economic stagnation or violent revolution, or both.

But maybe you meant something different