My girl was like that, but consistency goes a long way!
She still sometimes thinks of herself as ugly and undeserving (she's a fuckin' goddess, wtf), but she accepted that she is genuinely and passionately loved.
Still weirds her out, though.
My girl was like that, but consistency goes a long way!
She still sometimes thinks of herself as ugly and undeserving (she's a fuckin' goddess, wtf), but she accepted that she is genuinely and passionately loved.
Still weirds her out, though.
Perfect! First date can be the two of them in front of a therapist.
This is literally the problem I'm having with a girl right now.
She's a therapist.
So am I.
Don't trust therapists to have all their stuff together π
How often do you catch her using techniques and tell her not to cite the deep magic to you? Or vice versa? Are you the witch in this relationship?
Where did you guys meet?
Oh geez. Do yβall psychoanalyze each other?
So how are you arguing?
"My ego is really upset because of what you did but it might be also a bit overreacting because its similar to how my mother treated me as a child. Anyways, this is how I feel right know. I just wanted to tell you so you can understand why I am acting like this right now. Does this make sense to you?
Do you not trust other therapists because they likely externalize their problems by dealing with other peoples problems?
God, I dated a girl like this. We were like best friends, started dating and would argue with me any time I gave her a compliment or told her how I felt about her. Sad. I really did love her. She just didn't feel like she deserved to be loved.
As someone who has never been on a date but has watched a lot of romcom anime: a recurring theme that I see in them is about how you canβt be in love with someone if you donβt also love yourself. If you donβt believe you are worthy to be with another person, how can you ever accept their feelings even if they do come out and say it?
Iβm not really going anywhere with this. Itβs just something Iβve noticed.
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