I was watching This Is England from 2006, and it reminded me of the olden days of yore, in the fabled before-times, where people would just bunch up together every Friday in someone's flat, get drunk, blast music, and talk without distractions.

I can barely remember it now.

Anyway, get off my synthetic lawn.

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[–] 2 points 30 minutes ago

i was born before 2000, and I don't know it neither

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  • [–] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 child)

    As a post-2000 person, I can get a glimpse of that in some TV shows like breaking bad. Also when looking at my parents pictures from when they where younger.

    But I've never experienced it. You can hang out with friends and all but good luck convincing 4+ friends to NOT take their phones to a gathering.

    There's always someone texting their gf/bf, someone who likes to post too much, someone deep in online gatchas.

    Even an inactive user will carry their phone because of navigation, feeling insecure at night, paying stuff...

    There's a billion excuses (with a range of validity) to take your phone with you.

    Meh 😕

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  • [–] 3 points 38 minutes ago

    Easily solved by social compact, box (or more fun, jenga tower) on a table, phones go in box. First person to remove phone from box for reasons other than poop break (I'm not a monster) or leaving owes the group something, even if it's just a little dance.

    It's helped myself and most of the people I have done it with to truly understand how much we are actually addicted/dependant to the little electric serotonin dispensers.

    YMMV on getting others to agree 😅

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  • [–] 25 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

    Maybe it's something of the people I socialize with. But we don't look at phones when we gather. It's impolite.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 hours ago

    Phones are a great distraction when you're in a liminal space with nothing interesting going on.

    But parties tend to be the opposite of that. The only reason someone looks at their phone is if they're trying to avoid the party. And why even show, in that case?

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  • [–] 9 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

    My friends and I would be glued to the N64 or xbox instead

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  • [–] 5 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

    "Nobody looked at their phones during a party in 1999"

    Holds up picture of a LAN Party

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  • [–] 27 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

    Kids these days will never know the simple joys of lighting a filthy mattress on fire in a derelict parking lot and drinking a case of warm beer that was the easiest thing to steal from that one gas station a town over with the near sighted night clerk.

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  • [–] 8 points 3 hours ago (1 child)

    My town had a bowling ball factory and on winter nights when the river was frozen we would steal reject balls and throw them off the bridge downtown. They made a truly incredible noise when they hit the ice.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 hours ago (1 child)

    Rose tinted view. There were plenty of distractions without phones and people would just get black out drunk wayyy more often than they do now. Maybe a positive is that people can pave themselves easier now.

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  • [–] 10 points 6 hours ago (1 child)

    Change used to be gradual.

    You could drop Cleopatra into Queen Victoria's court and she'd figure out the rules in a week.

    Obama was cutting edge in 2008 because he used a Blackberry

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  • [–] 4 points 4 hours ago

    I thought he was cutting edge because he didn't use a BlackBerry, he used an iPhone.

    Also, the way Obama simped for the tech sector for eight long years might be proximate to why we're surrounded by Tech Fascists ten years after he left office.

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  • [–] 14 points 10 hours ago

    This is what we'd do because we were broke. If we had money we'd go to bars and stuff, but otherwise we'd ask the supermarket for free fish ice and buy beers, then filled the bathtub with them.

    As people came over they'd go drop the booze in the tub and pick up a cold one.

    Many fun nights, though finding people using your bed, not so much.

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  • [–] 22 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

    I was born in 1952.
    To me, people born after 2000 are true, real "aliens"

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  • [–] 21 points 14 hours ago (1 child)

    We used to have bonfire parties out in the woods. Such good times.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 minutes ago

    Tennis - Deep in the Woods

    In the woods, something glowing
    A burning light has started growing
    It feels like a change is upon us at last
    Consuming us fast, change is upon us

    The smoke in the night, the ash on the light
    I think that it might be the best thing in sight
    I know now I am right to let you be consumed by the light

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  • [–] 62 points 17 hours ago (6 children)

    They also don't know what it's like for someone to move away and you just never see them again.

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  • [–] 27 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

    You can still do that now.

    Source: I am appalling at keeping in touch with people I don't directly see face-to-face.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 hours ago (1 child)

    But it's an option for you to find people.

    Back in the day, if someone changed their address and phone number, you'd have to work hard to find them.

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  • [–] 8 points 5 hours ago

    My best friend in high school joined the navy and disappeared. I worked for decades to track him down. Then one day he was just on Facebook. We have nothing in common any more and nothing to talk about. But damn do I have some great memories of us hanging out.

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