I'm honestly sick to death of people acting like every goddamn kink is rooted in mental illness. This isn't the 50's, Freud's been discredited, so no blaming mommy today!

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I only SOMETIMES have memory gaps it's fiiiiiiine 👍

"Bitch, you are anything but fine."

Perfectly fine, shush gecko 🤏

"Recall everything that happened yesterday."

Initially only remembered the evening, then visiting the woods, and it took a moment to realise we worked from home, and that's basically all I remember

"The day before that?"

Fuck off 💀💀💀

"Uh-huh. Recall a single day before that."

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... uuuhhhhhh

"Definitely just ADHD. Enjoy the voices in your head, puppygirl."

TwT

I have no idea what any of that means and I feel like I'm not losing that much by not knowing

Overly online A(u)DHD person "Get mental health care instead of latching onto an online personality stereotype" challenge! Level: impossible.

(All meant in good fun. Everyone has a different path to better. I seriously do recommend therapy if you can find a good therapist though. I maybe could have worked through the shit they're helping me with on my own, but I've made more progress towards who I want to be in a few months than I have in years.)

yes yes, very accurate. the question is, does it help? im not a puppy girl but id be willing to give it a try if it gave me some relief from the internalized unrealistic expectations of my parents.

not everything needs to be a post-traumatic thing... one can like feeling safe despite not having had terrible parents or whatever.

I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

This totally does not apply to me, because my only value was my conforming to the expectations of my conflict-laden surroundings which could never be fulfilled because of their contradictory nature. So I am fine. I totally did not transition way too late because I was trapped in a behavioral pattern since my childhood and neglected my own needs. I so do not have cPTSD, thank you very much.

i feel personally attacked

mroooeww huuuuh

Why you gotta call me out on a personal level like that?