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[–] 32 points 1 month ago (2 children)

oh I'll lock in, but I have no choice what i will lock in to, nor how long I'll be locked in.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    yesterday: 6 hours on finally cleaning the apartment when you really need to do something else

    today: 4 hours on exactly what you need to do

    tomorrow: 16 hours on that game you havent played in 2 years

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago

    Oh but I've been locked in. It's just not the thing you or me wanted me to lock in on.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    "Just lock in" is easily the worst advice I've ever received.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I've mastered contorting myself into a cephalopod-like entity to squeeze through the open windows and cracks in the walls just to get inside. It's really tiring though, so I can only do it for so long.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    That sounds more like my anxiety than ADHD.

    "I can't fix the things that are wrong because of the things that are wrong."

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    You think being unable to focus doesn’t sound like Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (2 children)

    No. "I am locked out with the keys inside" suggests a problem that cannot be solved in the usual way because the usual solution is impossible due to the problem. So to me, it's more about a fear inspired by inevitability than an inability to focus when it comes to getting inside. I'm focused on getting inside. But I can't, my keys are in there. So what do I do?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I’m sorry but you misinterpreted the meme. It’s about ADHD, not anxiety. It says it right there in the meme.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Saying things doesn't make them true. Wouldn't ADHD be more like "just lock in." "bro, I have a million keys and a million locks, how do I find the right ones?"

    Anyway, I was sharing my own experience, which is why I used "sounds more like my" instead of "this meme is wrong."

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Has there ever been any research as to whether animals have mental traits similar to humans with ADHD?

    It seems super weird to me that a successful species of hunters was able to pivot to repetitive and boring farm work. Repetitive stress should make a mentally healthy animal freak out! Sitting for years will kill you! Locking in to something that doesn't deserve your attention seems like it should've been a less fit adaptation.

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