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[-] fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 hours ago

this is crazy good

what is the use of hair gel that's not for hair?

[-] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Oh god, I'm going to have to be the Old Trans explaining why everyone else's guesses on this one are wrong, lmao.

Back In The Day, before prosthetic soft penises ('packers') were widely available and cheap, a common substitute was to take a condom and fill it with hair gel. I never did it, but it was a tip around the time I came out in the mid 00s (although by then it was already starting to fade out in favor of silicone packers used today, it was mostly an affordability thing at that point). These weren't for sex, it's just to have something in your pants during your normal day that's penis shaped.

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 10 points 1 hour ago

Ah, that makes far more sense than the T-gel explanation. Probably a more realistic feel than the balled up socks.

Here’s an ad for a packer from the same issue of the magazine.

[-] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Oof, yeah, $45 in the 90s (? E: yeah, just saw '97 on your OP!) was a nonstarter for a lot of trans men! Condoms and hair gel were way cheaper in the short term.

Also Jesus Christ, I thought $40 for a binder now was highway robbery! $85?! That thing better be embroidered with gold.

[-] Hegar@fedia.io 10 points 2 hours ago

Mistaking testosterone gel for hair gel is the joke.

[-] PinkiePieYay2707@pawb.social 9 points 2 hours ago

Maybe it is hormones in gel form?

[-] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 hours ago

Yeah all the others I get but that one i'm stumped on

[-] cmbabul@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Could a trans man do a favor for a cis brother out here and explain the hair gel thing? My adhd curiosity is trying to think of practical uses and the only thing I’ve got is pube styling, if that’s a thing no hate but sounds less than comfy

[-] fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

i think the other commenters got it, mistaking testosterone gel for hair gel

fwiw i'm a trans guy and i didn't get it. the joke i probably would have made is "8. He's so obsessed with keeping his shoulders clean, he regularly slathers them in hand sanitizer and keeps you away from them." every t gel i've ever used is almost indistinguishable from hand sanitizer lol. but maybe that's how hair gel in the 90s worked

[-] cmbabul@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 hours ago

Thank you my friend! That makes sense!

And I’m glad to hear no one is gelling their pubes!

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

Wait, I missed a beat. Is Geneto the prefix that's replacing Cis now?

[-] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 14 points 1 hour ago

No they're subtly trying to get you to install Gentoo. It is very important you do not listen to them.

[-] Sivecano@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 40 minutes ago

You in-fact should listen to them 'cos gentoo's ver cool :3

[-] ImADifferentBird@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 13 minutes ago* (last edited 13 minutes ago)

This is from 1997, so it's more like cis replaced geneto-.

no, that's an older term.

[-] puppycat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 hours ago

this is actually amazing

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